Tips to Improve Relationship : Throughout our life we use word relationship. It starts from our birth and it ends with our death. (Though with death also it never ends, because physical relationship ends but what about the emotional part attach with dead person?) From our birth to death we are attached with it. First of all it is our birth which creates our first relationship with our mother in this universe and then onward the series of relationship starts. There are many relationships comes with us by birth like our father,siblings and many more person attached with our family, I mean these are the few relationships which we don’t have option to choose but it is mandatory, and there are many relationships we develop from time to time like our friend, our enemy,our well wisher,our critics and many more, till death it keeps going on. No matter which part of the world we are, we can not escape from our relationship,from physical point of view you can keep your self away from relationship but emotionally it always attach with you,depending upon the deepness associated with your relationship.
Relationship many a times becomes our source of life, relationship many a times becomes our cause of death, relationship many a times makes us happy, relationship many a times makes us sad. Relationship is what many a times makes us and many a times breaks us. What I mean to tell you here is that, throughout our life we are associated with relationship. Some are good, some are bad. Some starts good & later on converts in bad, many relationships starts bad but over the time becomes best. No matter we like it or loathe it throughout our life we cannot escape from our relationship. Just for a moment,can you imagine yourself completely isolated from all the relationship? I bet you can’t.
When relationship plays such a vital role in our life, don’t you think that we should pay maximum attention to make it more meaningful? Yes, it is utmost important to invest heavily in our relationship, which can help to make our relationship more meaningful.
But how can we make our relationship more meaningful? Dear friends, here I am giving you 10 Tips to make your relationship more meaningful. There are some tried & tested and some new but altogether all are useful tips, use it wisely and rejuvenate your slowly dying relationship.
1. UNDERSTAND THE NEED OF OTHERS :
Relationship is a two way dealing. So, there is always one or more person is involved in that process. And when any matter involves more than two person, always accept that other person has also some need. It may be physical,mental,social,financial or any other. So, when you are in any kind of relationship always try to understand the need of other person, the more you understand his/her need, the more it will be beneficial for your relationship.
2. SEE THE MATTER FROM OTHER’S POINTS OF VIEW :
Like you, other people has his own points of view and accept it wholeheartedly. Because many a times it becomes the major point of break-up, not to see the things/matter from other’s points of view creates lots of pressure, tension in many relationship. Once you understand other’s point of view it will be wonderful beginning for both.
3.YOU ARE HUMAN BEING SO YOU CAN COMMIT MISTAKES :
We are not superhuman being we are just an ordinary creatures of this world and being ordinary comes with some rare luxury of life . To commit mistake is one of the luxuries. So, many a times due to miscommunication or due to an oversight of the fact we can commit mistakes and if it happens accept that or confess it immediately.
4. BE CARING,BE SHARING :
Any relationship is depends upon the how you are caring and how you are sharing with your near & dear one. Remember the simple proverb ‘As you saw as you reap’. Saw the seeds of sharing and caring & see the fruits it yields over the years.
5. UNDERSTAND THE EMOTIONAL PART ATTACHED IN RELATIONSHIP :
Your each relationship is attached with some emotional part so understand it thoroughly and understand it’s importance. Whenever situation,circumstances compel you to decide something clearly about particular relationship don’t forget to understand the emotional part attached with it. In relationship there is always battle between head & heart, don’t forget to listen your inner voice while taking or making any major decision related to your relationship.
6. ACCEPT THAT NOTHING IS PERMANENT IN LIFE, EVERYTHING CHANGES WITH TIME :
Yes, it is absolutely the one of the most shocking yet ignored truth about life that everything changes with time so it is possible with your relationship too. Today what is considered as a one of the most reliable,enjoyable & useful relationship for you, tomorrow it may not be same, Due to some unavoidable circumstances may change it. Today’s most dearest friend may be tomorrow’s worst enemy, who knows ? & vice versa, so without any emotional bondage accept it. It is life,anything is possible.
7. KEEP YOUR EXPECTATIONS LIMITED :
Major reason for break-up of the most relationship is high, unrealistic, untimely, and unable to fulfill kind of the expectations from one of the concern person. These types of unrealistic expectations creates stress and at the end it deteriorate relationship and in longer period of life it becomes difficult to sustain.
8. BE PREPARED TO BE WOUNDED, BECAUSE YOU ARE IN A BATTLE :
If you are in a real relationship always be prepared to be wounded, because there were, there are and there will be moments in your relationship when you felt like you are taken as a granted, felt ignored, felt sidelined or felt unimportant person in relationship. Most of the times it is unintentional act from opposite person but than also you feel so. So accept it as a speed breaker of road, it minimize your speed in relationship for time being but it should not throw you out of the road. Many a times you too can do same with opposite person without your knowledge or intention. Whenever found in this situation open communication is best way to deal with the situation.
9. BE FRANK :
Frankness, openness is one of the most required qualities of any relationship so never underestimate the power of it. The more frank, open you are in your relationship the more your relationship will be pure and stand firm against the mighty storm.
10. RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE OLD WINE OVER THE YEARS IT TASTE BETTER :
Any good relationship is just like old wine the more old it the more tastier it becomes. Simple logic behind this argument is that over the years you can judge the opposite person thoroughly, you can observe his/her behavior in various situations so you can predict their behavior and these are the observations helps to built up lasting longer relationship.
These are the few tips which helps to make your relationship more meaningful, use it according to your own wish, judgement, circumstances & surrounding. The ultimate intention of these tips is to make your relationship more meaningful.
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