8. HAPPY PEOPLE LIVE IN THE PRESENT
We all have one precious ‘PRESENT’, the name of the present seems very much familiar with most of us, but only handful of us, fully utilize this ‘PRESENT.’ Those who use this ‘present’ becomes happy and those who does not becomes unhappy, relentless.
This is the one quality which is the major trademark of happy people. Happy people too have life like we all ordinary folks have- What here I mean by ordinary people, is that, majority of us, either lives in past or in the future.
I do understand, importance of past, because there are many things in life, which you cannot completely erase or delete from your mind, ultimately, it is your mind or brain, not a CPU of your computer where you can delete all unwanted stuff, so, despite of your all efforts your past always chase you, but happy people know very well what to remember, what to forget and what to ignore.
Like past, over attention to future is also one of the major cause of unhappiness in our mind. There is nothing wrong in expecting bright future, there is nothing wrong in dreaming about it or there is nothing wrong in worried about it, it all are the part and parcel of human life, not a single human being can remain unaffected from it and it is very much obvious because we are not saint or monk.
Happy people know how much attention should be paid to past, how much attention must be given to future and how much attention given to present. And, they know the correct wisdom, the more you live in present, the more you enjoy the life. The more you pay attention to your present, the more it will make bright future.
9. HAPPY PEOPLE TRUST THE UNIVERSE, AND FIRMLY BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A PLAN GREATER THAN YOURS
By closely observing the people around you, we generally, find two types of people mostly we meet. First, those who always complain about life, whatever happens to them they find out someone for blame, they find out someone who can be crucified and if they find no one at last they relieve their all mental agony anger and anguish on some intangible power like nature. And there are some people who despite of all, still believes, that whatever happens with them it is happening as a larger and greater plan of life.
Universal law was working, is working and will work. So, they accept whatever comes in their life with much more ease, calm and composed mind. And it is one of the reason for their everlasting happiness.
10. HAPPY PEOPLE KNOW THE MEANING OF BALANCE IN THEIR LIFE
For living and leading happy life it is very much essential to have complete balance in each and every sphere of life. Building or structure of life is built upon the various pillars like physical, mental, social and financial, each pillar are largely responsible for making happiness and sadness in life.
Complete balance among all of them brings peace and prosperity in life and it ultimately result in content in overall life and the more person feels content from inside the more happiness it generates inside and combination of all of these made life more meaningful, joyful and it certainly brings cheerful state of mind.
So, the ultimate conclusion, have a complete balance in life, if not complete than at least moderate balance is very much essential. Physical fitness along with cheerful mind attracts social relationship and combination of all certainly attracts financial freedom.
Interested to be happy person? Find out which area of your life, is need attention and start to work on it.
11. HAPPY PEOPLE ARE CAREFUL ABOUT THEIR BODY
All most, all of us know, for living happy life, physically fit body is prerequisite condition and lack of it creates numerous physical and mental problems in life. Despite of knowing this inevitable and very basic truth regarding the life, how many of us conscious and cautious about it?
Late night parties, Unlimited junk food, Excessive usage of alcohol are some of the most common habit found among sad people. No doubt, all of them gives you temporarily pleasure but you cannot create lasting longer happiness based on this bullshit or rubbish kind of the things.
Happy people are quite conscious about all of them OR we can say they become quite conscious about it in the process becomes more and more happy.
Regular physical exercise along with proper diet gives proper nourishment to body and well nourished body stimulate mind to generate enough happiness. Happy people know it very well and they understand the value of it in their life.
12. POSITIVE GOALS ARE PART OF HAPPY PEOPLE’S LIFE
By observing closely any happy person in your surrounding you will immediately notice one thing very common among them is that they have some positive goals in their life.
By positive goals, here, we don’t intend to say, money making ideas or ambitious wish list or something like that. But by positive goals we mean to say, goals or objectives which is useful for the larger community, some creative ideas which uplift the entire community, some positive work which enhance the life of many, some solid suggestions which sure brings happiness in numerous peoples life.
These are the goals dominates their life, these are the positive ideas keep them active throughout the day. Many a times they fail in that process but at least, tried to chase that dream keep them afloat for next big venture.
13. OVER ALL, HAPPY PEOPLE MAINTAIN POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON LIFE AND REMAIN AT PEACE WITH THEMSELVES
Over all, the happy people are also like all of us, needless to say, but in many cases they are more ordinary people than many of us, but what makes them more happy despite of having very ordinary life is their overall outlook towards their life.
Somehow they know, how to keep and maintain positive outlook towards life in most cruel moments of life. No doubt, at a times like this they too have their weak moments, they too become victims of the self pity, low self esteem and negative emotions but somehow they manage to control those emotion and later on completely wipe out those emotions and finally, they can plant some positive emotions above it.
So, over all, they can remain at a quite peace with themselves.
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