Here we have shared 6 useful quotes related to attitude towards how we think about others either in favor or disfavor or we can say support or resist them.

Attitude

I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.  – Martha Washington 

 What a wonderful quotation!!  Quotation Clearly mention that our heaven or hell is lying inside our mind only. We don’t have to go out anywhere. Many a times we tend to give credits of our happiness to someone and many a times we tend to blame someone else for our own misery, but if we thoroughly analyze the situation and if we can become brutal honest(It is lot easier said than done) about our self than only we start to believe that it is we, who have capacity to become happy or unhappy? It is we who can choose to be happy or unhappy. It is not external circumstances which are responsible for our mental conditioning. But it is our internal mind setting which is largely responsible. Change your attitude towards the situation, rest of the matter will be automatically changed.

A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.  – Patricia Neal

We are living in most hyper active, fast paced era of human civilization. We are in a complex dilemma, because everyday new technological innovations making our life more and more smooth, easy and comfortable, but at the same time, depression and frustration is also increasing throughout the world at an alarming rate. We are living in a global village where to travel from one nation to another nation, one continent to another continent has became very easy but at the same time to reach to the heart of our near & dear has become more and more complicated and these all create lots of trouble, tension, frustration & depression in our mental makeup and many a times we need to consult to the psychiatrist-who are related to the diseases. But one simple piece of the advice from me is that instead of using drug or therapy & frequent change in it. Change your attitude towards life. Be more positive towards life, look everything of life as a larger scheme of life and react accordingly, have complete faith in universe. I guarantee, you will not need any drug. Wish you all the best.  

Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives – William James 

One parrot that is living in golden cage is most happy because here it gets it’s food on time, no attack from outer world so there is no danger, and life is absolutely safe. Regular medical check-up, love & affection from all family members made it life like heaven. Only thing seems to bother, it is the lack of freedom but it will not mind because of other perks associated with no freedom. Does it mean that each parrot will feel same in this situation? No, absolutely no, because like parrot we human being are also same. Outer aspects of our life is completely depends upon the inner attitudes of our mind. If you closely look at the people around you, take keen interest in human psychology and observe their day to day life carefully you will realize what I mean to tell you. There are many people who will never complain about their life no matter how worst living condition of their life. And you may find many people ,despite of all luxury of life they always find something to curse to the God, universe, destiny, their upbringing, their family members and many more. So, the focal point is happiness and unhappiness is lying well within us only. Best part is we have complete freedom to be happy or unhappy? So, would you like to be happy? If yes first of all change your inner attitude.

 It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult undertaking which, more than anything else, will determine its successful outcome. – William James  

When we begin any task no matter how small it, like preparing tea for our self or no matter how difficult it like climbing the highest peak of Mount Everest. It is the beginning which will determine the outcome of ending. It may seem strange but it is the harsh and hard reality of life. Any Endeavor we start, if we closely look at our mind pattern at the beginning of the task, we already knew in our mind what will be the result of our efforts. Because from the beginning of the task if our attitude is positive, it will create great impact on our mind and the same attitude will turn into iron like will power, great enthusiasm and cheerfulness of mind and these are the quality which will be stuck with us, when we are in self-doubt. When we are low on our confidence level, when we are exhausted and when  our entire Endeavor seems useless. So, simple piece of advice from the seasoned player, before beginning of any task make up your mind, feel the feeling, and if you feel great about it, just go for it and believe me you will never regret about your decision. Have you ever done that? If yes please do write it in comment. Wish you all the best.

Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us. – John N. Mitchell 

If you heard the reactions of the people about their life, it varies from person to person. For many it is useless, painful, tedious, boring & long journey. For many it is wonderful, marvelous, enjoyable unending experience. For many it is just the duty, we came in this world and until death we must live. And if you closely observe the people and their life, immediately you will realize why someone is living wonderful, great life and someone is miserable in their life. Now, the genuine question comes in our mind everybody gets the same life but why their life differs from each other. The simple answer to this complicated question is that it is your perception towards the life which determines your quality of life. It is our attitude towards our life determines that what life will give back to us. So, If you are dissatisfied with your life, if you are unhappy about your life and if you are really interested to change it don’t try to change the external environment immediately, first of all change inner attitude of yours towards the life and see the difference it will make. So, what we are waiting for? Let us start it from today. Do not forget to share  your experience. Wish you all the best.

You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you. – Brian Tracy 

Do we have control over hurricane like tsunami? Do we have control over frequent earth quake? Do we have control over heavy flood? Yes, up to some extent due to technological advances we can predict some outcome but still there are many things which are beyond human control. I am not talking about the big events of our life but smaller incidents are also way beyond our control. Can you predict with certainty that those who are loyal, faithful, loving, supportive & most caring will remain same forever, through out the life? Do you imagine that your today’s expertise skill may become obsolete tomorrow due to some technological innovations? Etc. What I would like to specify here is that life is neither bed of roses nor it is bed of thrones but it is combination of both. Like you, there are many players in your life which has their own set of minds, own set of priorities, own set of thinking and own set of judgement, views and many more thing. Which is absolutely beyond your control and it gives us pain, grief and sadness in our life. But in that situation instead of controlling your surrounding why don’t you try to control your reactions towards that particular action. Believe me this is one of the greatest reason of sorrow in our life because throughout the life we expect others to behave like us but instead of it now let us make some small change in our thinking from today. Instead of changing the external environment first of change our attitude.

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1 COMMENT

  1. Thanks for the great sharing. In life, it’s our attitude that defines ourself, it’s how we face and deal with everything in life that defines us. Attitude is important.

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